My 10-year-old daughter has been taking tennis lessons for 18 months and her coach thinks she's ready to start competing. I'm excited but also nervous about pushing her too hard.
## Her Current Level
Consistent groundstrokes from the baseline
Can serve overhand (not always in, but getting better)
Good hand-eye coordination
Loves playing and practicing
Plays with orange balls on 60' court
## Coach's Assessment
Technically sound fundamentals
Good court awareness for her age
Competitive spirit in practice games
Ready for local junior tournaments
## My Concerns
### Emotional Readiness
How does she handle losing?
Will competition kill her love for the game?
Pressure from other parents?
Balancing fun with competition?
### Practical Considerations
Time commitment (weekends)
Travel to tournaments
Cost of entry fees, equipment
Impact on other activities
### Development Questions
Is 10 too young to compete?
Should we focus on technique first?
How many tournaments per month?
Local vs regional competitions?
## What I've Heard
### Pros of Early Competition
Teaches mental toughness
Accelerates improvement
Goal-oriented practice
Social aspect with other juniors
### Cons of Early Competition
Pressure can be overwhelming
Focus shifts from fun to winning
Expensive commitment
Risk of burnout
## Questions for Experienced Parents:
What age did your child start competing?
How did you know they were ready?
What were the biggest challenges?
How do you keep it fun?
Red flags to watch for?
Best tournament formats for beginners?
## Questions for Coaches:
Technical requirements for competition?
How to prepare kids mentally?
Balancing competition with development?
Warning signs of too much pressure?
I want to support her tennis journey but also preserve her childhood and love for the game. Any advice from those who've been through this?
Thanks! πΎπ§
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TE
Tennis Enthusiastβ’229 days ago
Started my daughter at 9 in local tournaments. Key is keeping it fun and focusing on effort over results. Look for "red ball" or "orange ball" tournaments designed for beginners. The social aspect has been amazing!
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Junior Tennis
Posted by
Jennifer Martinez
Created
July 11, 2025 at 01:32 AM
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